We were the two work newbies, even though I started six months before he did. We used to have lunch together and shared many personal and intimate stories. I think he eventually wants to advance his career as far as he can. I feel like I got left behind because his priorities changed, and our friendship was left by the wayside. If that person takes a step back and heads in a different direction, of course it is hurtful. You looked to your co-worker for emotional support and now it is gone.
On the plus side, you have learned from this experience. Work relationships are just that, and it is unwise to expect more from them. You had a preconception about how your relationship with this person was going to be; he had other ambitions, and he is acting upon them.
Such is life. The diamond was made into an engagement ring for his first marriage which, obviously, also ended in divorce. As a couple, we are trying to decide what to do with the stone. We could sell it it has been appraised , or he has suggested I keep it and have it made into a necklace. I am unsure about the proper action to take in this situation.
Although it is not a pressing matter, we have discussed it for a few years now. Your input would be appreciated. You know its monetary value, so consider taking it to a jeweler and discussing a trade-in for something you would enjoy wearing, such as earrings or a bracelet.
Where I live, multiple gold chain bracelets and necklaces are popular. Contact Dear Abby at www. Box , Los Angeles, CA By Jeanne Phillips. Share this: Click to share on Facebook Opens in new window Click to share on Twitter Opens in new window Click to print Opens in new window Click to email a link to a friend Opens in new window Click to share on Reddit Opens in new window.
