Comedian Lane Moore has crafted an entire show out of swiping left, and right, on the app over the last four years. Here are her biggest takeaways. I n , I started Tinder Live! This blows my mind. Because while men are busy trying to be coy about whether or not they want something more, so are women. And they might not even message you back if you message them first.
Super bang you? I have no idea, but it really bums me out. Nope, my vagina says yes! And then there are the yellers. I get it. The idea that all older men are wonderful gems and all young men are worthless erections is reductive and untrue. So calm down, everyone! Many guys whose profiles are absolutely ridiculous end up being surprisingly sweet.
And that is how I know, or at least suspect, that sometimes the guys with the ridiculous profiles are just trying to be what they think women want them to be. And the good news is, sometimes they let themselves go beyond that and actually connect with the person in front of them. I have so many friends who met their now husbands and wives on Tinder. It happens, and in increasing numbers.
Which one is it? Are you in a cult? Is this a group thing? Are you incapable of being alone? Either way, I hate this and all genders do it. Please stop. Not messaging at all. Lane Moore is a comedian, writer, actor, musician and creator of the critically acclaimed comedy show Tinder Live. Comedian Lane Moore, host of Tinder Live!
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