I respect your privacy and only subscribe you to what you've specifically requested. Unsubscribe at any time. Just ask the millions of women out there that are secretly hoping for their ex to suddenly see them for the great people they are so they can have their fairy-tale ending. Butโฆ Fallback Girls and assclown lovers are obsessed with the big question: Will he try to get in contact with me?
To add insult to injury, Mr Unavailables and assclowns are lazy. They may not even call; they might skip straight to text, instant messenger or email! It depends on the circumstances. It may not be today, it may not be tomorrow, it may not even be this year or even twenty years. Whether or not he gets in touch depends a great deal on you. You are in the driving seat of this way more than you realise.
Had the brass balls to see him for what he is and tell him to jog on. Or to try to get back in controlโฆ and then disappear. Held on to his feet begging him to stay. Keep making contact with him. However, depending on how shady or egotistical he is, he might not feel the need to reach out, yet. He will make contact as and when he needs you. You will possibly become part of a narcissistic harem. And some will bide their time.
Appear to have moved on or seem as if you might be getting over him. Or, another explanation is that Professor Life throws you a pop test in the form of him reappearing. Your task is to say no and keep moving on. Avoided him for longer than any previous breakup.
On some level, he has an idea of when he thinks he can reach out. He might wait for a while after the longest period has been exceeded. And then ego will get the better of him. Worked his way through his narcissistic harem of women and hit a blank wall. Dumped by the one he left you for, or he finds himself being rejected by someone else. In a nutshell: If you give any hint whatsoever that you are still interested in him and for many of you, that will come down to giving him the time of day , he will get in touch.
