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If you're feeling bold, flirt with girls you meet in person to see if they're interested in a casual hookup. Alternatively, connect with girls through dating apps so you can flirt with multiple girls at once. When you've found a girl who seems to be interested, invite her to meet up in private for a potential hook-up. Warning: Stick to 1 or 2 compliments. Warning: Her agreeing to be alone with you is not consent for having sex with you. Keep in mind that she might be okay with kissing and touching but not having sex.
Additionally, she can change her mind at any time. Variation: Send her a gif to get her attention. A funny gif is more likely to get a response than a message. Watch for hints or listen for her approval to take things to the next step. Start out with small gestures, like a hug or touching her shoulder. If it seems like she is okay with that, you can try out other things, like a first kiss. If, however, it seems like she doesn't want to move forward, give her some space.
Always make sure that you're being respectful of her wishes. To hook up with a girl you like, first flirt with her a bit by complimenting her on her appearance. While you're talking to her, make sure you face her and maintain good eye contact so she knows you're interested.
When she flirts back, try asking her out on a date for food or a fun activity. If the date goes well and she seems to be having a good time, invite her back to your place to hang out.
