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No ex-wives, no page-long love letters. His profile painted him as a witty, multi-talented young guy who had sold a company at a young age, allowing him to spend most of the year traveling and learning languages.
This already looked promising — and then I saw his photos. And his bank balance, a feature of every sugar daddy profile. He was young, loaded and very handsome. There were traces of messy hair, motorbikes and leather — very much my type — but the way they were put together was more Hedi Slimane than Sid Vicious. He was worth more than my entire inbox of sugar daddies combined.
Ethan was a unicorn in a compost heap. I waited a day to reply, and briefly mentioned my love of Southeast Asia and cinema, subtly testing to see where he would take the conversation. He replied almost immediately with stories of favorite places in Luang Prabang and asked me if I had seen the latest Errol Morris documentary. Truly, a unicorn.
We talked for another few days, and finally decided to meet for drinks on Tuesday night. Instead of the usual leather pants or ripped jeans, I dressed tamely for the occasion: a navy cashmere sweater, tapered burgundy pants, a long, burgundy coat, plum lipstick, light eyeliner and my hair in a loose ponytail.
