This one's for anyone who's ever been told "you'd be so beautiful if only you lost a little weight. Sierra Hufham was on vacation in the Dominican Republic when she got to chatting with a nice older couple by the pool. The three of them hit it off so well, Hufham β single at the time β decided to take a chance: "If you have any kids, I'm daughter-in-law material.
It was magical," she tells People. And here I am, this big girl. The unspoken rules of our society dictate that a relationship like this could never work out, between a self-described fat girl and a fitness-obsessed dude with six pack abs.
But a few years later, Sierra and Brandon got married and, despite the odds, they're happier than ever. In her most popular clip , she bluntly asks and answers the question: "Can fat girls date hot guys? Because you're just a person, you're a person just like a skinny girl.
As a person you have personality, you have beauty, you have style, you have finesse just like a skinny girl does. So don't feel like anybody's out of your reach. Because they're not. Sierra goes on to explain that she was told her whole life that she'd never be able to make an attractive man fall in love with her, and it took years and years of work to undo that programming and rebuild her confidence.
That ruined my self-esteem for a long time. And he loves me as I am and not as a fetish. You can land anybody you want to, weight is not the issue here. It's peoples mindsets and their hearts and that's what matters. Because he fell in love with who I am as a person, my weight does not matter. My husband is into fitness and the personal training type world and it interests us both.
