No strings attached, please! Not that I mind. Just started seeing this funny guy who is nice in bed, but not my really my type and not a good potential partner: he is much younger I'm in my thirties , and our backgrounds, interests and personalities are really different. We've been on a few dates, about a week apart, with little communication in between. I'm hesitant to discuss our status because I don't want to hurt his feelings if he's actually into me, nor jinx it or something.
Is this the sort of thing you can just "fall into" or should we have some sort of conversation about it? Or set down rules? I don't really know. Also, I am totally fine with NSA, and would prefer it to dating him in a more romantic way. How do I keep this going? What to look out for? Private answers can be sent to pleasestringsno hotmail. There is every chance he is on a completely different page to you. There is a chance he isn't.
You cannot assume, you have to say what you want if you don't want to run the risk of grief later on. There is nothing to assume a NSa agreement, as that always requires consent on both parts. He may just be not contacting you for various reasons - playing hard to get, is an arsehole, doesn't feel he needs to proven fact, clearly , doesn't want to crowd you and 'spoil it'. It could be literally anything. Conversation is the only way to go to avoid future drama. Lucky guy.
Depends; are you going to dump him the next time some other guy shows up? Either way, totally tell him what you just told us. Most guys would be totally cool likely even thrilled with this, or smile and try to make you reconsider.
I'd suggest you put your cards on the table. On the other hand, if you're upfront, he can make the call as to whether it's an awesome situation or whether he'd prefer to look elsewhere for whatever he's after. IIRC no strings attached doesn't usually involve going anywhere before having sex after the first meeting or so.
