There are many misconceptions about orgasms , and more than one of them have to do with squirting. The truth is, this elusive sex sensation is possible—and some people say that these orgasms feel particularly powerful.
Jess podcast. The biggest key here? Just make sure you feel comfortable. Ahead, a step-by-step guide on how to make yourself squirt during sex, according to sex therapists. Shop Now. With any kind of sexual activity, you're going to have to deal with some fluids—and squirting can get particularly messy. So, Castellanos and Hall both recommend taking precautions if you're worried about over-saturating your sheets.
A regular towel can do the trick, or you can invest in an easy-to-clean blanket designed for sex , like the Liberator Throw. In order to have an orgasm in general, your body and mind! Because squirting can sometimes feel like you're urinating, some people start to tense up once they're on the precipice, because they're worried they're about to pee, notes Hall.
So, try your hardest to get in a relaxed, aroused state, and stay relaxed once an orgasm is imminent. A pro tip: If you find yourself getting in your head about the possibility of urine, just pee ahead of time. Although, even if there is some urine, try not to panic. If you're new to squirting, Hall recommends lying on your back as you masturbate or during partnered sex and spreading your legs. This position is comfortable and offers lots of access to the clit.
That said, other people find that doggy style —which can allow for super-deep penetration , and prime G-spot stimulation—helps them squirt, Hall adds. For some people, simply finding and stimulating the G-spot for an extended period of time! The area is located inside the vagina along the front wall, and pushing a toy, finger, or penis against it can feel pleasurable. You can also place a pillow under your pelvis to help a partner or toy reach that spot, adds Hall.
